Visited 127 times , 2 Visits today
9 Tips on How to Teach Self-Discipline through Routines
All families need a routine to establish some form of normalcy. The goal of discipline is to install self-discipline in your child and have them make good choices even when you’re not around. Many bad habits are learned in childhood and persist throughout our adult lives. Rarely do we give up on all of them. But the good news is that you can teach your kid self-discipline and break their bad habits. Teaching discipline only requires a bit of patience and proper guidance. Here are a few ways you can teach discipline through daily routines.
1.Create a Schedule
Consistent routine helps your child with anything from the ability to sleep well at night to eating healthy and avoid snacking out of boredom, regulating their bowel movements, spending time outdoors, and having a more relaxed behavior. Set bedtimes, meal times, snack times, play time, and other day-to-day activities. Their bodies will adapt to these changes, learning when it’s time to sleep and when they really need food.
2.Provide Reason, Not only Rules
Parents often make the mistake of creating dozens of rules but not explaining the reason behind these rules. When a NEW rule is made or an old rule needs to be enforced write it in the parent’s area of your kid’s journal. Kids need to understand why they’re encouraged to do things in a certain way. So, instead of just saying ’Because of I told you to,’’ explain why it’s the healthy/safest/most logical/etc. way to do it in their journal. You don’t need to provide a lengthy explanation; be quick in writing down your and explaining.
3.Teach them to Build Relationships
Teaching your child how to relate to others is crucial schedule time to visit relatives in their schedule. Encourage your kids to perform small acts of kindness so that they build empathy. This is an essential skill to have so that they grow into sympathetic adults. If your child doesn’t get along with other kids, don’t just tell them to ’knock it off.’’ Try to teach them that discussing any issues they may have is important so that they get along in the future. Many adults today are not able to build healthy relationships of any type because they have immature social skills.
4.Let Them Be Active
Some kids are more active than others but ensure there are weekly activities in your kid’s schedule that they enjoy. Some kids enjoy playing video games indoors, while others seem to have enough energy to move mountains. Some parents take the wrong approach to an active child by trying to make them feel having so much energy is a bad thing. The truth is there’s no right or wrong because each child is different. Instead of trying to calm them down, get them involved in a pleasant, energy-consuming activity. Signing them up for dance lessons, for example, is an excellent idea for active kids.
5.Bond the Family Together
When your child notices regular family activities such as family night, going to church, family dinners, they begin to understand what’s important in life. They’ll grow to share the same family beliefs and interest. They’ll see that family time together is something to be cherished; they’ll pick up on these traditions and maybe apply them when they’re ready to start a family of their own. Furthermore, family meals have been found to help kids with poor verbal skills more than nightly reading, for example. So it may also be a good way to get a shy kid to come out of their shell and improve their social skills.
6.Give an Allowance for Doing Chores
Scheduling daily chores teach kids responsibility and accountability. Paying your child a dollar or two for routines chores can teach them the value of work. Some will argue that an allowance for doing chores may make the child feel entitled to receive money for anything they may do later on in life, but that’s really not the case if you do it right. You don’t have to pay them for every little chore they do, and you certainly shouldn’t continue to give an allowance of this type as they grow older. But for younger kids, this little trick works wonders because they will be able to understand your own hard work better.
7.Setting up an a Saving plan
At first children can learn by saving part of their allowance but as your child grown into a young adult and get their first job, it’s also a good idea to set up an IRA Roth of 50%. This will help your child learn the value of money and the importance of saving a certain part of what they make. Teach them that by doing so, they’re investing in their future and improve the chances of affording things they really need. We all know that when we’re younger, we may be tempted to spend all the money we’ve worked so hard to make.
8.Praise Good Behavior
Every time your child demonstrated self-discipline write a positive comment in the parent’s area of your child journal; you can also add stickers to grade them on how well they are following their routine, writing in the journal every day or scrapbooking, provide praise so they know they should keep up with that specific behavior. Good behavior can go unnoticed, but if you provide them with a positive response every time you notice it, you’re increasing the chances that they’ll repeat that action.
9.Give Your 9 Tips on How to Teach Self-Discipline through Routines
Schedule Time to goof off and give check on your child’s progress first every day, then every other day, then every week, then every other week until your child is independent enough that you can check it once a month. However, you still might want to add your notes for the day in the Parent Section so that you don’t forget. As you establish a routine, your child will grow to know when it’s time to eat a snack, brush their teeth, do a certain chore or go to bed. They will take pride in knowing they’ve done it on their own without being told to. So rather than just keep on telling them what they should do, allow them to grow confidence by letting them be in charge of themselves. This should make them less likely to rebel.